You put all of this time and effort into planning your perfect wedding ceremony and reception but have you thought about your cocktail hour at all? Yes, it's true. Chances are - you might not even be there for the whole thing. We did a first look before our ceremony so we could try to get to our cocktail hour after a few family photos but we never did make it. We were off taking more photos and taking advantage of a minute alone together. Plus, we knew that there was only s